On Compassion
You’re human, and so are they.
“Whenever you take offense at someone’s wrongdoing, immediately turn to your own similar failings, such as seeing money as good, or pleasure, or a little fame—whatever form it takes. By thinking on this, you’ll quickly forget your anger, considering also what compels them—for what else could they do? Or, if you are able, remove their compulsion.” - Marcus Aurelius
Perhaps you’ve ever criticized others without pausing to consider the burdens they carry, the limits they’re pushing against, the private goals they set for themselves. You’ve condemned, you’ve patronized, yet you’ve done the very things you despise. It doesn’t feel so good, does it? And that is the first sting of hypocrisy- the humbling realization that you’re no exception- you’ve fucked up, thrown a tantrum, and failed at the same expectations you have for others. The only noble response is to own it, to correct your reaction, to extend the benefit of doubt, and to stop wasting energy ra…
