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Chase Carothers's avatar

If anger is used properly, it can sharpen your focus to a high degree. There is a difference between a person approaching you with fear and approaching you with respect. Anger properly used can expose snakes that lay in the grass and it can gain loyalty if used to protect others.

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This works because it rejects the usual split. Anger isn’t holy or toxic—it’s power. What you’re saying, and saying well, is that it’s not about suppressing it or exploding with it. It’s about directing it.

That line—“let it tell you what you’ll no longer tolerate”—is the hinge. That’s where the shift happens. Not in trying to stay calm, not in letting it boil over, but in actually listening to the fire and asking: what’s the standard that just got violated?

Most people skip that. They either vent or numb out. But what you’re pointing to is where the real work happens—turning anger into action that actually reshapes your life.

This isn’t just a post. It’s a mirror. Thanks for the reminder that rage, when listened to, can become clarity with a backbone.

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